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Parents’ mobile use harms family life, say kids

  bbc.co.uk By Judith Burns  Education reporter 23 April 2017 From the section Education & Family Parents who continually check their mobiles can leave children feeling upset and ignored, suggests research An overuse of mobile phones by parents disrupts family life, according to a survey of secondary pupils. More than a …

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“A Kiss a Day Keeps Divorce Away”

    A very thoughtful and insightful perspective from M.Y Baig on strengthening the relationship between husband and wife.   Allah Ta’ala said regarding marriage:   وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً إِنَّ فِي ذَلِكَ لَآيَاتٍ لِّقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ   “And from among …

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ASMA, THE PERFECTIONIST……

  Asma was always one to focus on what was missing: the sun on a cloudy day, the tiny smudge on her otherwise beautiful painting, the single wrong answer on a test. She feared imperfection like it was a debilitating disease. And it showed…… Like this evening…… Five families were …

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Why Buy The Cow When You Can Get The Milk For Free?

islamichorizon.com The phone rings… Tring…..Tring….Tring… “Hafsah! Where are you? Hafsah! Answer the phone…calls Hafsah’s mother Jee! Ammy Jaan…replies Hafsah… Hello! Who is speaking? At the other end she can hear her cousin, Rummanah sobbing… Calm down Rummanah, what is the matter, why are you crying…? After a few more sobs, …

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10 things to try before giving up marriage

www.gottman.com/blog/10-things-try-giving-marriage/ Ismail and Ayesha, both in their late forties and married for fifteen years, are considering divorce. “I’m done with this marriage,” complains Ayesha. “I feel unloved and rejected by Ismail, we don’t have an emotional connection and rarely have sex anymore.” Ismail puts it like this: “Ayesha loves the …

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Surviving Marriage

https://tightknot.wordpress.com/   Who knew on this day you would be born for me? Who knew the distance of 7,000 miles would not keep you apart from me? Who knew 20 years after my first breath, you would take my breath away from me? Who knew the one man my father …

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Relations (Learn to love him as he is)

www.heartsoflight.com Imagine standing there hearing your name loud and clear, then being taken to stand there and told, choose whichever door you would like to use to enter. You stand there filled with happiness beyond belief, finally you are home. Finally you will be happy forever. At last you will …

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10 tips to win your husband’s heart

By: Halahshaheen Source: The Hearts of Light Before we get started let us as wives remind ourselves of one very important fact, our husbands are our ticket to paradise insha’Allah. Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 3254 Narrated by Anas ibn Malik: Allah’s Messenger (pbuh) said, “When a woman observes the five times of …

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Strive to be Simple in Five

 http://uswatulmuslimah.co.za In this day and age, there are very few places that we can frequent without encountering posters, billboards and flyers advertising “CONSOLIDATE YOUR DEBT!” “BLACKLISTED? WE CAN HELP!” Even more surprising than the amount of debt aid agencies that have sprung up is the amount of people that flock …

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Gheerah – Protective Jealousy

Where are the Real Men? Why are The Muslim Men so Emasculated? Has Feminism and Gender Equality Destroyed us? by Qarie Ahmed Saeed We live in societies in which most men and women have lost their sense of modesty, women are obsessed with their appearances and wear clothes to be seen …

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