There’s a young man, his parents find out about his drug addiction, they are totally traumatised. Instead of getting him help, they unfortunately feel the institution of marriage will rehabilitate him. The idea of “settling” him down, concealing his ugly habit and marrying him off to an unsuspecting, innocent young …
Read More »The Law of contrast and the breakdown of Muslim Relationships
https://www.central-mosque.com [30:21] And it is among His signs that He has created for you wives from among yourselves, so that you may find tranquillity in them, and He has created love and kindness between you. Surely in this there are signs for a people who reflect. Psychologists have long known …
Read More »Strengthening the Marital Bond
By: M.B. Ahmed The Bond of Marriage is the bond connecting the husband and the wife. This bond is made up of numerous threads, each thread representing a human virtue. These threads are woven together to form this bond that keeps the husband and the wife connected together throughout …
Read More »Victims of Free-Mixing
Umm Muhammad, a woman over the age of 40, tells her story. I lived a life of modest means with my husband. There was never any closeness and harmony, and my husband did not have the kind of strong personality that a woman would hope for, but his …
Read More »The Garment of Marriage
From a kurta to an abaaya, and a pair of pants to a shirt – almost all items of clothing are made in the same way – by joining different pieces of fabric together. The process, in essence, is as follows: First, different pieces of cloth are gathered. Then, they …
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Read More »The Concept of Consequence
http://www.uswatulmuslimah.co.za/ If every person in this world was free to do exactly as he pleased without any law and order, wholesale havoc and mayhem would prevail. Imagine if ownership was not respected and each person was allowed to snatch whatever he wished from the next person, or if life was …
Read More »100 Tips for Wives
http://www.wisewives.org/blog/2011/02/17/7-i-surrender First, read what these authors have to say about the importance of the role of the woman in a marriage, and how much tweaking just a few things here and there in your attitude and dealings with your husband can change the whole dynamic of a relationship. Then check …
Read More »Stop the blame game in our divorces in Society – The other side of the story!
Whilst our society generally places all, if not most blame, squarely on the husband when it comes to a breakdown of a marriage, the stark reality is that many a times the wife is equally guilty or even far more guiltier than her husband. The perception of society needs to …
Read More »Is the Husband still Responsible for Maintenance of the Wife when the Couple is Separated
Nasihah (Advice): The Best Woman Sayyiduna Abu Hurayrah Radhiyallahu Anhu reports that Rasoolullah Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was asked: “Which is the best woman?” He replied: “The one who pleases (her husband) when he looks at her, obeys him when he gives a command, and does not go against …
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