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Can I be someones ‘second’ secret wife?

http://idealwoman.org/ Question: I have recently reverted to Islam. There is a man who is interested in me and wants to make me his second wife. i agreed to it but now he says he knows his first wife won’t accept it so it will have to be done in secret. …

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15 Things Happen When You Give Up Control

 BY LAURA DOYLE http://lauradoyle.org/blog/give-up-control/ The World-Famous System for Relinquishing Control has Unexpected Side Effects What happens when 18 women tell the up-close and personal story of how their marriages were struggling in some way, and describe exactly how they stopped controlling to restore the passion and playfulness? First, you get …

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Clothed yet naked

 http://ihyaauddeen.co.za/?series=hayaa Imaan in Grave Danger Honesty, trustworthiness, kindness to parents, respect to elders, decency (in manner, speech, dressing, etc.) and a host of other basic values are cherished by one and all. The reality, however, is that such values are gradually becoming rare and extinct. While there could be many …

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Revocable Divorce

Question My question is regarding revocable divorce. If a man issues one divorce to his wife, and they reconcile before the end of iddah period, is that divorce annuled? Meaning, is that divorce cancelled and doesn’t count towards the 3 divorces? The definition is ‘revoke’ is to annul or void …

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100 Tips for Wives

http://www.wisewives.org/blog/2011/02/17/7-i-surrender First, read what these authors have to say about the importance of the role of the woman in a marriage, and how much tweaking just a few things here and there in your attitude and dealings with your husband can change the whole dynamic of a relationship. Then check …

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Why Doesn’t My Husband Love Me?

 BY LAURA DOYLE Being married to a man who was once affectionate and thoughtful, but isn’t anymore, is painful and heartbreaking. I still remember what that was like. It hurts just thinking about it, even though that was years ago. But what if the underlying problem was something you could …

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5 ways to improve your marriage using your iPhone

Below are five practical ways you can improve your marriage using your smart phone by Dave and Ashley Willis  We live in an age of technology where most people spend more time with their cell phones than they spend with their husbands or wives. Despite the negative drawbacks our phones …

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Respect each other in Divorce

by MS Saeed All over the globe, including in South Africa, the divorce rate among couples of all religious beliefs, creeds, social classes, racial and ethnic groups is increasing daily. Not long ago the word “divorce” was only in the dictionary or off- limits in many families and cultures. Couples …

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Reclaim Your Muslimah Identity

By Farah Mehboob   One of the most mistreated blessings of Allah (subhanahuwata’la) is ‘life’. It seems that as humans are progressing in technology and science, the digression between the way we live and the way we are supposed to live based on our natural disposition (fitrah) is also increasing. …

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