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*Marital Guidance

Kuwaiti expert explains the ’5 stages of marriage’

Saudi Gazette | 10 Rajab 1437/18 April 2016 An academic said the belief on the importance of children in marital life and that they can be likened to nails for fixing marital relations and protecting them from collapse is a misconception. He said their existence only affects the time separation …

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Towards Marital Bliss – Audio

http://www.islamicspirituality.org/lectures/workshops/towards-marital-bliss Audio Lectures by Shaikh Mufti Kamaludeen Ahmed. Click below on links to play: Towards Marital Bliss – Session I 77′ 19″ Towards Marital Bliss – Session II 64′ 20″ Towards Marital Bliss – Session III 85′ 30″ Towards Marital Bliss – Session IV 75′ 46″ Towards Marital Bliss – Session V 85′ 14″ Towards …

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What to do on your first night of marriage

Cii Radio We live in a hypersexualised world. Yet, when that hour beckons, many of those who have lived a chaste life would admit to being quite clueless about how to spend those first few jeweled moments in intimacy together. As a complete mode of living, it should come as …

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Depressed Husband

Laura Doyle Depressed Husband 4 Surprisingly Effective Ways to Bring Him Back to Life Being married to Eeyore is excruciating. You’ve got to wonder why your guy doesn’t just look on the bright side. But that’s not how depression works. It makes sense that you want his depression to lift …

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Addict?

 http://www.uswatulmuslimah.co.za/ “Cornell Information Science published research earlier this month that looked at (among other things) the difficulty some people have in quitting Facebook and other social networks. They even have a label for the failure to quit: “social media reversion.” The study used data from a site called 99DaysofFreedom.com, which encourages people to …

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Husband Abuse

Many scholars, activists, and concerned individuals/organizations have constantly highlighted the abuse of women and wives in our communities, and rightly so. I have also mentioned it in numerous lectures and writings, and continue to do so. However, the abuse of husbands is seldom brought up in our discussions. In my …

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The Marriage Carriage

http://www.uswatulmuslimah.co.za/ Marriage is one amazing journey… The fuel for the first half of the journey is love while the fuel for the second half of the journey is mercy. Marriage initially takes off as a beautiful, novel experience in which you enjoy the thrills and frills. With age, the couple …

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10 reasons you’re unhappy in your relationship

10 common reasons you’re likely unhappy in your Marriage relationship.   It doesn’t matter how many souls I land up helping though, they all have the same commonality: everyone wants the other party to be the person that is in the wrong. No one wants to take responsibility for being …

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Is it the Wife’s Responsibility to Cook?

Question: There is a message going around that a wife does not have to cook. A husband must provide three times cooked food for the family. Is this the ideal we ought to be living by? Any examples from the life of Rasulullah Sallahu alaihi wasalam and the Sahabah would …

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Being the Ideal Wife

    SOURCE: UswatulMUSLIMAH http://uswatulmuslimah.co.za/posters/ladies/Happily%20Everafter%20-%20Course%20Material%20%283%20Modules%29.pdf   Introduction Being the ideal wife is largely dependent on the manner in which a wife conducts herself, serves her husband and deals with him. In Islam, we are taught to show importance to fulfil our obligations and the next person’s rights, and not to …

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