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Daughter in laws

By Naadira Chhipa They courted for a year before he had the courage to tell his mother about his love and his intention to marry her.His mother was not impressed as she had already set up samoosa runs for every Sunday of the month yet she reluctantly agreed to meet …

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The dark flames of social media have entered our homes

by Naadira Chhipa He sits hunched over his laptop with a smile plastered over his bearded face. It is 1 am and his wife is sleeping peacefully after a tiring day of being a superwoman homemaker.He enthusiastically replies to her suggestive messages.He is a 40 year old father,a husband and …

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Your Worst Enemy

By Naadira Chhipa A 28year old mother of two looks into the mirror,she is dressed in an elegant abaaya and beautifully draped dupatta,her face has minimal make up yet a glow illuminates her look,a natural beauty.She looks at her reflection in disgust,criticizing herself from head to toe.I hate the way …

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Your BEDROOM should NOT become a ‘BORED ROOM’

Article By Islam Alive Magazine This is yet another article that will have the Ulama shaking their heads in disbelief, or nodding their heads in total approval of what is about to be revealed in this article. We have tried to be as discreet as possible by citing examples that …

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Marriage to a Christian Woman

Question Assalam o Alakikom, I need information regarding marriage to a christian woman. I am Muslim man and has agreed with a christian Vietnamese woman. I would like to make nikkah with her before the conjugal relation. I have visisted several Masjid of Vietnam and discussed the said issue with …

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A Partnership of Improvement – Nikah

http://uswatulmuslimah.co.za/ There are many different partnerships in this world, and each has its own purpose. The purpose of a business partnership is to make money, while the purpose of a political partnership is to gain dominance, power and rulership. Similarly, nikaah is a life-long partnership which has multiple objectives. If …

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*Marriage 101*

  MARRIAGE is like a shoe. When you wear oversize be ready to drag it along through out life, and when you wear under-size be ready to feel the pains through out life.” One thing about marriage is that you don’t drop your shoe or remove it at any point, …

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17 tips to keep the happiness flowing at home – Women

CII Radio Narrated by ‘Abdullah bin ‘Umar :The Prophet said, “Everyone of you is a guardian and everyone of you is responsible (for his wards). A ruler is a guardian and is responsible(for his subjects); a man is a guardian of his family and responsible (for them); a wife is …

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17 tips to keep the happiness flowing at home – Men

FOR HIM 1. You must be nice to your wife. Make small gestures, but make them often and make them with sincerity. The little things matter. 2. Renew affection by telling your wife ‘I love you’ at least once a day. The three words ‘I love you’ can mean a …

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Three who will Not Enter Paradise

  Rasul Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “Three will not enter Paradise: he who is disrespectful to his parents, he who lets his wife fornicate with another, and women who affect masculinity.” [Hakim] The onslaught of western culture, primarily through cable T.V. and movies, inculcates in children from …

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