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What Porn is doing to Men

By Faraz Omar | Saudi Life “You cannot fight them even when they are busy in Salah. You cannot unless they are weakened in their faith. So display all your riches and temptations, and even your women. And when they indulge in the dunya, then fight them.” ROMANS felt humiliated …

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And His Cries Went Unheard: Husband Abuse Unveiled

By Umm Zakiyyah | Saudi Life “I DON’T care who’s listening,” the sister spoke angrily into her friend’s phone, prompting the other sisters in the room to look in her direction, concerned expressions on their faces as they halted their own chatter amongst themselves. “I have somewhere to go, Abdullah. …

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50 things you need to know about marital relationships

As taught by Shaykh Waleed Basyouni, Fiqh of Love 1. Great relationships don’t just happen; they are created – you have to work on it 2. If your job gets your best energy, your marriage will wither – if you only come home tired and sick, your marriage is in …

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Marriage Mail

Question:I am married for 22 years. My husband enjoys me showing him love, but he doesn’t like to show me the same kind of love towards me. There are many places in which they say you must show your love to your wife, and even tell her that you love …

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Proliferation of Divorces

Proliferation of Divorces The alarming explosion of Talaaqs in our present times is a cause for great concern. The mention of the word Talaaq which was at one time taboo in our communities has now become such a common and cheap word that in some marriages every argument features this …

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Excellent piece of advice for Females

It would not be far from the truth to say that these words deserve to be inscribed in gold ink. ———– ‘Abd al-Malik (RA) said: “When ‘Awf ibn Muhallim al-Shaybani, one of the most highly respected leaders of the Arab nobility during the jahiliyyah, married his daughter Umm Iyas to …

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Polygamy in the West Today

Polygamy in the global community is common, normal and accepted.  According to the Ethnographic Atlas Codebook[1] derived from George P. Murdock’s Ethnographic Atlas recorded the marital composition of 1231 societies, from 1960-1980.  Of these societies, 186 societies were monogamous.  1041 were polygynous.  According to Joseph Ginat, the author of ‘Polygamous …

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Polygamy

                                       Polygamy Islam is criticized for allowing polygamy, for popular culture in the West views polygamy as relatively backward and impoverished.  For many Christians, it is a license to promiscuity, and feminists consider it a violation of women’s rights and demeaning to women.  A crucial point that needs to be …

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60 WAYS TO KEEP YOUR WIFE HAPPY

60 WAYS TO KEEP YOUR WIFE HAPPY The Prophet (SAW) “The most perfect of the believers is the best of you in character, and the best of you are those among you who are best to their wives.”  1.Make her feel secure; ( tranquility) QUIT BEING AGGRESSIVE 2. When you …

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Fundamentals of a happy marriage

by Shahina Siddiqui Faith: The most basic and essential attribute of a Muslim marriage is the common faith that binds the couple. Since Islam is a way of life and not just a religion confined to weekly worship it becomes an integral part of a Muslim’s life. The frame of …

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