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*Marital Guidance

Disappointed Husbands & Happy ” Shaikhs “

By Maulana Khalid Dhorat Fatimah* has been happily married for 12 years now. She has three beautiful children and her home is full of harmony, peace and love. Yes, she has the occasional petty argument with her husband, but by and large, there is a great degree of love, respect and …

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Ten Steps to Winning his Heart

http://www.uswatulmuslimah.co.za/ ‘Amr bin Hujr Kindi had sent a proposal to ‘Auf bin Muhallam Shaibaanee asking for the hand of his daughter, Ummu Iyaas, in marriage. On receiving the proposal, the father of Ummu Iyaas, ‘Auf, decided to accept it.   When the night arrived for Ummu Iyaas to leave her …

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A Spouse Closed to Growth

BY KAMAL SHAARAWY The Young Man and the Elder Stranger A 24-YEAR-OLD man lived in a small town where everyone knew everyone else. He had a reputation as someone who could not keep a job for long, who did just the necessary minimum to get by. He never hurt anyone or …

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Kuwaiti expert explains the ’5 stages of marriage’

Saudi Gazette | 10 Rajab 1437/18 April 2016 An academic said the belief on the importance of children in marital life and that they can be likened to nails for fixing marital relations and protecting them from collapse is a misconception. He said their existence only affects the time separation …

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Towards Marital Bliss – Audio

http://www.islamicspirituality.org/lectures/workshops/towards-marital-bliss Audio Lectures by Shaikh Mufti Kamaludeen Ahmed. Click below on links to play: Towards Marital Bliss – Session I 77′ 19″ Towards Marital Bliss – Session II 64′ 20″ Towards Marital Bliss – Session III 85′ 30″ Towards Marital Bliss – Session IV 75′ 46″ Towards Marital Bliss – Session V 85′ 14″ Towards …

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What to do on your first night of marriage

Cii Radio We live in a hypersexualised world. Yet, when that hour beckons, many of those who have lived a chaste life would admit to being quite clueless about how to spend those first few jeweled moments in intimacy together. As a complete mode of living, it should come as …

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Depressed Husband

Laura Doyle Depressed Husband 4 Surprisingly Effective Ways to Bring Him Back to Life Being married to Eeyore is excruciating. You’ve got to wonder why your guy doesn’t just look on the bright side. But that’s not how depression works. It makes sense that you want his depression to lift …

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Addict?

 http://www.uswatulmuslimah.co.za/ “Cornell Information Science published research earlier this month that looked at (among other things) the difficulty some people have in quitting Facebook and other social networks. They even have a label for the failure to quit: “social media reversion.” The study used data from a site called 99DaysofFreedom.com, which encourages people to …

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Husband Abuse

Many scholars, activists, and concerned individuals/organizations have constantly highlighted the abuse of women and wives in our communities, and rightly so. I have also mentioned it in numerous lectures and writings, and continue to do so. However, the abuse of husbands is seldom brought up in our discussions. In my …

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The Marriage Carriage

http://www.uswatulmuslimah.co.za/ Marriage is one amazing journey… The fuel for the first half of the journey is love while the fuel for the second half of the journey is mercy. Marriage initially takes off as a beautiful, novel experience in which you enjoy the thrills and frills. With age, the couple …

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