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*Marital Guidance

Pre Marital Relations

by Sister DM. The dignity of human beings and especially the dignity of women is something that is utterly valued and highly sanctified in Islam. A woman’s womb in Arabic ‘rahm’ is extracted from the name of Allah Himself ‘ArRahman’ (The Most Merciful). This is a sign of elevation and …

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10 reasons you’re unhappy in your relationship

10 common reasons you’re likely unhappy in your Marriage relationship.   It doesn’t matter how many souls I land up helping though, they all have the same commonality: everyone wants the other party to be the person that is in the wrong. No one wants to take responsibility for being …

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Happy families

  🌸Dearest Wife, He is your provider, protector and your partner in life. Don’t forget him when you have your kids. You’re a mother but you’re still a wife. Don’t neglect his needs and always remember that its ok to have your off days but don’t let the messy bun …

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Complain to Allah​

“The kids are driving me up the wall!”… “I’ve got the most terrible migraine! It feels as if my head is splitting!”… We all have our portion of problems in life. Whether it’s a toddler with a tantrum, unreasonable in-laws or nosy neighbours, peoples’ problems and challenges span all spheres …

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Walima before consummation

Nasihah (Advice): The Walima of Nabi Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam Sayyiduna Anas Radhiyallahu Anhu says, “Nabi Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam camped at a place between Khaybar and Madinah for three days. It was here that he consummated his marriage to Safiyyah Bint Huyayy (Radhiyallahu Anha), after which I invited the Muslims present to a …

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Reality of “Muslim” weddings

Setting: Wedding Hall. Stage in the centre and draped with soft silks. Music playing in the background. Six hundred eager people conversing and anticipating the arrival of the bride. Enter the bride. A dazzling young beauty, laden with only the finest and softest materials enters the hall. Glittery ornaments sparkling …

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A Prayer fit for a Queen

  She was exhausted. The blisters on her hands attested to the demanding nature of her tasks. By looking at her hands, who would have believed that these were the hands of the Queen of Jannah? Affection overwhelmed him as he stared at his beloved wife’s hands. He understood why …

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Please stop committing these ‘Robberies’!

  Some very freakish ‘robberies’ are taking place nowadays and they are really becoming widespread like forest fires! Outwardly these enticing robberies appear harmless but they have serious repercussions. The weapons used to commit these robberies are the ‘Smartphones’! A person usually commits a robbery for material gains but in these robberies there are …

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Marriage to a Drug Addict

Bint Ahmed Sulaymaan – Cii Radio There’s a young man, his parents find out about his drug addiction, they are totally traumatised. Instead of getting him help, they unfortunately feel the institution of marriage will rehabilitate him. The idea of “settling” him down, concealing his ugly habit and marrying him off …

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Muslim Weddings

  Moulana Yunus Patel rahmatullahi alaih mentioned : A sister wrote a letter to him stating, ‘As much as we wait for weddings in the family, the problems that come with them far supersede the true joy that should be experienced at the time of a wedding. So when my …

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