Marriage

The Mindless Dating Game: Happiness or Heartbreak

Reprinted from As-Sahwah.com   The article below deals with one of the major problems faced by the Muslim Youth today, in particular, those raised in the west. The author gives us an insight into the harsh reality of these “love relationships” that the western culture teaches our youth, coating them …

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Habits For Success In Your Family

  1. Start by choosing the right spouse (Qur’aan, Surah Nur: 34) 2. Efforts must be exerted to correct any defects in a spouse once married. Develop the family spiritually. Remember Allah often. (Qur’aan, Surah Nur: 87) 3. Inculcate Imaan (faith) in the children. Follow the Sunnah and read the Qur’aan regularly especially …

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Sustaining Spousal Love

Islaaminfo.com Quell Insecurity, Give Space   “You just spent the last half an hour on the phone! What were you discussing that made you laugh so hard? I’ve been waiting for your conversations to end, just to have a scrap of your attention.” Have you ever known someone who is …

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Divorce: Dealing with Arguments

Islam discourages divorce except as a last resort after having exhausted all other avenues to try and save the marriage. If divorce becomes inevitable, then Muslims need to avoid the bitter fights, custody battles and airing of dirty linen in public. Here are some tips on handling arguments that arise …

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Afflicted With Romance

By Sabeen Mansoori Wedding season is once again around the corner. Many hours of the holiday season will be spent looking upon the beaming faces of the bride and groom and the guests arrayed in all their finery. People will smile and chatter, and at the center of it all …

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Tips for A Successful Marriage

  Men are often stubborn and have a hard time forgiving…BE PATIENT WITH THEM.  If Allah swt puts it in their hearts, they’ll eventually come around. And if they don’t…JUST PRAY FOR THEM. They’re still our brothers in Islam. Women too can be very stubborn and inconsiderate…but remember, our shortcomings …

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Really dealing with pornography

  by Mohamed Ghlian Source: http://mohamedghilan.com Posted by: MV Media   I wrote an article in the past outlining some of the ways viewing pornography could be altering one’s brain. The idea with that article was to appeal to the better sense of those who spend their time in this disgusting activity. It …

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Point Scoring or Conflict resolution

  We at the Jamiatul Ulama KZN endlessly deal with conflict situations and disputes. Our constant advice to the parties in such matters is to avoid courts and resort to alternative dispute mechanisms such as mediation and arbitration. One of the benefits of such mechanism is that they are private …

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DEVELOPING YOUR CHILD’S CONFIDENCE AND CHARACTER

  1st Home “I got two A’s,” the small boy said, His voice was filled with glee. His Father very bluntly asked, “Why didn’t you get three A’s?” “Mom, I’ve done the dishes,” The girl called from the door. Her Mother very sarcastically asked, “Did you sweep the floor?” “I …

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Mutah-Nikah is worse than Zina

   by Shaikh Mumtazul Haq Malik                       1.Mutah “was” practiced in the early years of Islam but then abolished like drinking alcohol , gambling and usury (riba) was initially allowed but then made unlawful.  Nobody now says we should start …

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