True Story (Names and details changed) I was nineteen when Irfan proposed to me. We had known each other since high school. Ours was a love marriage in every sense of the word. We had grown up together, fallen in love when we were young, and by the …
Read More »Modern Medicine’s War Against Breastfeeding
By:Crypto Cranium Date: August 22, 2026 7 min. What do baby formula milk, post-partum depression, Big Pharma’s war on motherhood, and the unnatural approach of modern medicine towards treating the human body all have in common? Everything. Table of Contents The Abandonment of Breastfeeding Abandoning Breastfeeding Leads to Insanity Getting …
Read More »21 Points On Raising Children Part 2
11 – Teach your child the authentic ‘Aqeedah (creed and belief). Say to your child what the Prophet (sallAllahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) said to ‘Abdullah bin ‘Abbaas (radhiallahu ‘anhu), “I am going to teach you some words. Be mindful of Allah, Allah will protect you. Be mindful of Allah, you …
Read More »21 Points On Raising Children Part 1
B Umm ‘Abdillah. 1 – Raising children is complex, as they are in need of patience and management. Some children are in need of gentleness, kindness, not raising your voice at them; such children should be dealt with without stubbornness. Other children are in need of sternness, but this sternness …
Read More »10 Ways to Raise Children to USE Drugs
Obey their demands. Give in to their tantrums. Deny them nothing. If they want it, indulge them. Make sure they know you will always be there to get them out of trouble. If they break a toy or wreck a car, replace it. Overlook, defend, or rescue them from …
Read More »The Only Audience That Matters
On her wedding day, the bride stands adorned with care. Every detail has been attended to: the garment chosen with deliberation, the jewellery placed just so, the effort of hours visible in her appearance. The women of the household admire her as they enter. Compliments follow one after another and the room …
Read More »Independence and Isolation Are Two Sides of the Same Coin
Independence and isolation are two sides of the same coin. Recently, I had an interesting conversation with my dad that got me thinking about this. When my dad first moved from Egypt to the United States twenty-some years ago, he found some things very odd in his new surroundings. He …
Read More »Frugal Living: Are We Really Depriving Our Kids?
I often hear ladies complaining that they want to stay at home with their kids but that they “have to work since it is so expensive to raise kids these days”. One of the main questions I get asked about frugal living is “won’t I be depriving my children …
Read More »From Tawḥīd to the Ego: The Hidden Shirk in Modern Feminism
In recent years, a particular idea of “independence” promoted by modern feminist movements has gained popularity- even among Muslims. On the surface, it sounds appealing: be independent, need no one, do it all yourself. But beneath this slogan lies a worldview that is deeply problematic from an Islamic perspective. It …
Read More »Masturbation -A Disastrous Problem Faced By The Youth
Every harm is the result of sins. Hence, the harms of masturbation proves that it is a sin. Why should it not be so when sins are the root of misfortune and the key to all vices. Ibne Qayyim (Rahmatullahi alaihi) says: “The reason for every loss, misfortune and evil …
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