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Too many Cooks Spoil the Broth!

  Ever wondered what in the world that meant? Especially when you walk into a world class buffet and take in the spread of food. Hot and cold cereals and porridges, freshly baked rolls and breads of countless varieties stacked neatly in wicker baskets, pastries, crepes, crumpets, pancakes and waffles …

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Parents indoctrinating/alienating children against the other parent

[LISTEN] ML Sulaiman Moola: “Tragic that Parents Indoctrinating Children Against Other Parent After Divorce”   Esteemed scholar Ml Sulaiman Moola says while divorce has become the norm among Muslim communities, parents are using children to attack each other in a show of defiance and malice. Ml Moola was rendering a …

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How a Husband can bring Radiance into his Home!

  (Without installing any extra lamps!)   Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala in His infinite Wisdom has created an amazing relationship known as the Nikah or the Marriage. Very briefly a marriage is: A solemn and sacred social contract between the Bride and the Groom. In this contract both the groom and the bride are …

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17 tips to keep the happiness flowing at home – Women

Narrated by ‘Abdullah bin ‘Umar :The Prophet said, “Everyone of you is a guardian and everyone of you is responsible (for his wards). A ruler is a guardian and is responsible(for his subjects); a man is a guardian of his family and responsible (for them); a wife is a guardian …

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17 tips to keep the happiness flowing at home – Men

FOR HIM 1. You must be nice to your wife. Make small gestures, but make them often and make them with sincerity. The little things matter. 2. Renew affection by telling your wife ‘I love you’ at least once a day. The three words ‘I love you’ can mean a …

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Faithfulness is Never Forgotten​

(Wife of Nabi Ayyoob [‘alaihis salaam] – Part Two) Nabi Ayyoob (‘alaihis salaam) remained in the state of sickness for more than eighteen years, yet he and his respected wife remained patient and steadfast. One day, Shaitaan approached the wife of Nabi Ayyoob (‘alaihis salaam) in the form of a …

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Through Thick and Thin

(Wife of Nabi Ayyoob [‘alaihis salaam] – Part One) The incident of Nabi Ayyoob (‘alaihis salaam) is well known to one and all. Initially, Nabi Ayyoob (‘alaihis salaam) was enjoying great prosperity. He had abundant animals and crops, many children and numerous homes. Allah Ta‘ala then decided to test Nabi …

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Intercourse with one’s wife after her menses prior to ghusl

QUESTION I had intercourse with my wife when her menses were just over but she has not taken ghusal bath . Is it Haraam as per shariah? ANSWER In the Name of Allaah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. As-salaamu ‘alaykum wa-rahmatullaahi wa-barakaatuh. In principle, if the menstrual habit (‘aadah) …

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Absolute Submission​

Sayyiduna Mugheerah bin Shu’bah (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) reports the following incident: On one occasion, I sent a proposal to marry a girl of the Ansaar. When I mentioned this to Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam), he asked me, “Did you see the girl?” When I replied in the negative, Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi …

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Getting Married In Shawwaal

https://hadithanswers.com/getting-married-in-shawwal/ Question Can we say it is recommended to get married in Shawwal because of the narration of Sayyidah ‘Aaishah (radiyallahu ‘anha) that Nabi (sallallahu ‘alayhi wasallam) got married to her in Shawwal, or it was just coincidence?   Answer As Muslims, we believe nothing was a coincidence in the life …

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