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There is NO “TEENAGER” Phase in Islam

The ‘teenager’ image was artificially created in the 1920s by marketing gurus and other social engineers. The aim was to bring into existence an artificial demographic that could be targeted by the commercial sector and to encourage the purchase and consumption of all manner of useless, unnecessary gadgets, fads and fashion items designed to give those between the ages of thirteen and nineteen the impression that:

(a) they were different; and
(b) that they were somehow special.

And so, instead of a child being prepared gradually and carefully by its parents for the arrival of maturity and adulthood, and to start behaving responsibly and constructively (a child has the most zest for life in these very same years), children at the age of thirteen were now encouraged to think of themselves as not quite children and not quite adult: an in-between stage full of (mis)adventure, rebellion, financial semi-autonomy, personal freedom, sexual activity without commitment and a whole new – but totally false – social identity.

The creation of the teenager was, then, not only a commercial ploy but also a classic case of divide and rule, and wasting the energy of the youth in utter frivolity.

It is interesting to note that in the three most important languages spoken by people in the Muslim world – Arabic, Persian and Turkish – there are no words for ‘teenager’.

In Islam one is an adult when he or she reaches the age of puberty.

Some examples of youth from Islamic history and their achievements:

Abdul Rahman Al Nasser, 21 years old. He was the most powerful prince of Iberia, his era was the golden time of Andalusia, in which he ended the chaos and raised an unrivaled scientific renaissance, making his state the strongest one in his era, which required the leaders of Europe to seek his acceptance.

Mohammed Al Fateh, 22 years old: He conquered Constantinople,
capital city of the Roman/Byzantine empire, that the top commanders at the time couldn’t approach.

Sayyadina Usamah bin Zayed, 18 years old, led the army of the Muslims that included the top companions may Allah be pleased with them, like Sayyadina Abu Bakr and Sayyadina Umar, to face the greatest armies of the earth at the time.

Mohammed Al Qassem, 17 years old: He conquered the Land of Indus, he was one of the top military commanders of his time.

Sayyadina Sa’ad bin Abi Waqqas, 17 years old: He was the first to throw an arrow for the sake of Allah and one of six people of Al Shura. whenever he turned to the Prophet ﷺ. while sitting among his Companions, he was greeted cheerfully by the Prophet ﷺ. saying, “He’s my maternal uncle. let every person show me who his uncle is”

Sayyadina Al Arqam bin abi al Arqam, 16 years old: He made his house a headquarter for the Prophet ﷺ for 13 continuous years in MAKKAH.

Sayyadina Talhah ibn Obaidullah, 16 years old: He was the most generous arab in Islam, pledged an allegiance to the Noble Prophet (saws) in the battle of Uhud, and protected him from the Kuffar and shielded him from the arrows with his own hands until it got paralyzed and shielded him with his body.

Sayyadina Al Zubayr ibn al-Awam, 15 years old:He was the first one to raise a sword for Islam, and he’s known as “the disciple” of the Noble prophet ﷺ.

Sayyadina Amr ibn Kulthum, 15 years old: He was a knight and the leader of the Taghlib tribe, in which it was said that “if it weren’t for islam, the taghlib tribe would have eaten the people”.

Sayyadina Mu’ādh ibn ‘Amr ibn al-Jamūḥ, 13 years old and Mu‘awwidh ibn ‘Afrā’, 14 years old: They fatally wounded Abu Jahl the leader of the polytheists in the battle of Badr.

Sayyadina Zayed bin Thabit, 13 years old: He was entrusted the important role of writing down the Quranic verses that were sent to the Prophet ﷺ from Allah swt through Sayyadina Jibreel. He learned the Syriac and Hebrew languages in 17 nights, memorized the Quran and contributed in compiling it, and he was the personal scribe of the Noble Prophet ﷺ.

Sayyadina Attab ibn Asid: the most Noble Prophet appointed him as the governor of Mecca when he was just 18 years old.


Moulana Khalid Dhorat

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