The Muslim Woman

Parenting Styles: Is Friendship Too Much of a Good Thing?

  “It’s better to leave your children self-sufficient than to leave them on the mercy of others.” -Prophet Muhammad (Tirmidhi) Today’s parents are struggling to balance the fine line of being best friends with their children while at the same time setting limits and enforcing rules.  Due to the “therapization” …

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The Post Exam Period- Appeal To Parents

  By Abu Muhammad Yusuf   Our children are a trust given to us by Allah. Depending on the upbringing we give them, we may nurture them to be morally good and upright persons or if they are just left uncared and untrained they may become innocent victims of the …

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The Cure to Black Friday/Cyber Monday

Black Friday is the sacred festival of one of the world’s fastest and most aggressively spread new religions. This religion has its holy places, its towering shopping cathedrals lit with decorations and promises of salvation. This religion has its rituals, its recurring pilgrimages, its devout followers engaged literally in qiyām al-layl as …

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Why am I still not married?

  I remember the chagrin and inner turmoil of being single and hopeful of marriage, back during my early twenties!   Even after almost a decade of marriage, I still vividly remember the constant roller-coaster of emotions that the heart experiences every time a marriage proposal is negotiated.   One …

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“Team work makes dream work’’ Series 2 – Chapter 2

Bismillah Series 2 – Chapter 2 Disclaimer: The stories in our articles are not factual. Their themes however, are based on real life challenges. In chapter 1, we helped the husband to understand his role as Ameer of the family. We also identified the value of his wife, that her …

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“Rather Safe than Sorry”

  It’s the first day in the life of baby Aamir and he is wheeled into the maternity ward to be met by his over joyous mum. It is her first child and she is bounding with delight. She holds him to her chest, cuddles and plays with him, admiring …

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Status of a Salaah if a woman’s hair is exposed

  Nasihah (Advice): A house in Jannah   Sayyidatuna A’ishah Radiyallahu anha narrates that Rasulullah Sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, “Whoever perseveres in performing twelve Rakaats from the Sunnah, a house will be built for him in Paradise: four Rakaats before Zuhr, two Rakaats after Zuhr, two Rakaats after Maghrib, …

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Hejama: “The cupping cure”

    A few years ago, I completed a degree in Traditional Chinese Medicine, specializing in Acupuncture, Herbal Medicine and Remedial Massage. In the course of my studies, we were also taught different methods of cupping and touched base with wet-cupping referred to as “Hejama” in Prophetic Medicine.   Hejama …

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“All that Glitters is not Gold”

  A person had once gone to visit the ruler of his area. The ruler asked him about his condition and the man complained to him about numerous worries and concerns that were troubling him. He also said to the ruler: “You are very fortunate. You are enjoying a very …

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In Pursuit of Happiness

“Eat, drink and be merry, for tomorrow we die” seems to best express the only kind of happiness modern man has made available to himself; and we know where such gross hedonism leads to. Our current culture of greed, instant-gratification and of turbo-consumerism may deliver us short term ‘highs’, the …

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